but now it's over

do you ever get sad for the things that you're missing based on the choices you've made?

so here's the thing...
i had another one of my awesome meltdowns this weekend. ya see, i've been kinda teetering on the edge of this one for a while. i've gone through these last few months the best way that i could. this back and forth thing with fr, starting a new job and there's the holidays.

all of these things live in little compartments in my head. i think they call it compartmentalizing. well, i've been compartmentalizing things for a long time. and i think i officially ran out of compartments.
i knew that i had to stop living my life like this a long time ago, but it wasn't that easy. i had meant to change things when i got back from vegas. i'd meant to stop seeing fr all together, but he made it harder than it needed to be.
over time we grew closer and then there was all this drama that he had going on. and i was given a lot of information very quickly. i see now that i probably should have bolted then. instead i accepted everything that he told me. everything.
what is truth and what is lies, i'll never really know. i could find out. h*, you can find anything out on the trusty interwebz these days.

there are so many things that i had to keep to myself. remember all those secrety secrets? well, i'm done keeping them. i can't do it anymore. i have too much on me and too much in my head not to write.

what is so sad is that i truly cared about this person. THIS was epic. it was the closest i've ever come to happiness in my life. it was so close and yet so far. it seems to have been an illusion now.

i'll always love him and care deeply for him, but now it's over.